Once again, even though the relevence level to NewGrounds is zero, and you don't care, I'm going to talk about it. Me and my girlfriend broke up a week ago. She sent me a myspace message, of all things. She just didn't think it was working out, I agreed to some extent, and pretty much saw it coming for the past couple of weeks.
And I had actually confronted the things that were wrong (In my head) and was ready to really make an effort to change, but ironically I was a bit too late.
I was okay with it though. It was saddening, for sure, but I didn't break down or anything.
I've been okay with it until out of nowhere this fucking douchefag comes out and starts hitting on her. Now I'm not going to be jealous when we're not even together, but what really annoys me is that not only is this guy doing this right after we break up, but he just met her very recently. He barely even knows her. The only reason it seems he would be doing this is because she's really hot, and he's correct in that reasoning, but it's still not good reasoning alone.
I love her, and seeing this happen less than a week after we break up is messing with my head.
So I confronted him about it, but he avoided the subject whenever I brought it up. And looking at his profile on myspace and whatnot, on top of everything I just don't like the guy, at all.
But I have to deal with all of this anyway. I mean what the hell am I going to do about it? I have no place to do anything about it. Yeah, I can tell her, but that wouldn't matter. Really I don't even think she would go out with him at all. Not even if she hadn't just got out of a breakup. I'm really just annoyed by the fact that this guy is doing this, and making himself seem like a total dick because of it.
I dunno, maybe I'm just thinking about it too much.
I hope that one day in the future me and her can give it one more go, when things are more likely to work out. In my heart and mind I believe that eventually that day will come, until then I'll just have to move on and see what life gives me.
mad-spyke
basically, be nice and dont be an asshole in any way... that even means no snide comments or jokes about her weight.... or looks.... and dont compare her to other gf's you ever had (unless your saying shes the best)
.... that is all i guess
good luck
StarF68
Thanks for the advice, I'll keep it in mind, though I didn't plan on doing any of that lol. :)